Tuesday, January 27, 2009

The compliments just keep coming

I'm not going to lie .... sometimes the day just stinks. I know there are many people that have it a lot tougher than I do, but some days you just want to crawl in the bed and start over. Know what I mean?

I really shouldn't be surprised. I remember when I was beginning a study in Sunday School for high school girls on the subjects of modesty, purity and virtue. I asked God to allow me to think like them and understand what they were facing today. Almost immediately, he put me right where they were and gave me a huge zit on my right cheek. Ha!

We're in the middle of the study of Esther .... It's tough being a woman. Oh my word, it is. For many reasons. I'll spare you the details, but I have been having some .... issues. Of the hormonal sort and boy are they fierce. I keep shouting, "Hey! I'm tooooooo young for this!" But, no one is listening.

While packing E's lunch this morning, I started crying because she told me I had been packing the wrong drink for her. Her teacher had complained and told E to tell me. That little comment sent me into a crying frenzy. You know the kind. The one where everyone you live with just stands and looks at you with their mouths open. Maybe afraid to speak, I don't know.

To make matters worse, the way I have been feeling cannot even be cured by huge consumptions of chocolate.

I KNOW.

More evidence that Jesus is coming back soon, ladies. Very soon.

Of course, one incident isn't enough. I had to stop by the drug store after picking E up from school to get supplies for a school project. While waiting in the long line at the checkout (in the middle of two men), O yells, "Mommy! You could get this! You could put this on your eyes and make you feel better!"

It was an anti-wrinkle system. A system! Not just a small bottle of cream.

I'm silently praying for Jesus to take me home when E speaks up in my defense, "O, Mommy does not need that. She's does not have wrinkles."

O looks at me and points. She points! And announces, "Yes she does! Look at these!"

E (my sensitive child) knows what potential damage is on the horizon and says sweetly, "Those are not wrinkles, O. Mommy is beautiful".

I'm feeling somewhat better until I hear her follow up her comment with, "Besides, she put on that beautiful make-up this morning. You can't even see the spots all over her face."

And, just like that, my confidence was deflated once again.

So, now I'm off to take TWO Tylenol PM (shout out to Meredith - ha!) and crawl in the bed.

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is CLASSIC Deidre. Where have you been? This is what I love to read. Ha ha. I will say the hormonal issues will only get worse. Take heart. You're not alone! We can always count on our children to encourage us.

Mindy said...

Oh Deidre. I'm sorry you've had a bad day. I had to laugh about the "crying fit" though because I can Soooooo relate.....

Blessings girl. Oh, and I know I just had a baby, but I know that I have hot flashes and have had them for a couple of years now.....

Beautiful Pear Tree Lane said...

Just loooooove reading your blog,it just brings back so many memories and i get to lol!!!!. been there.... done that.....
Blessings.
Sue

JenB said...

Oh bless you. Thanks goodness His mercies are new every morning, huh? This totally cracked me up by the way. :)

Kelly said...

This made me laugh, not at you, but with you! My girls have a way of keeping me humble!

Tales From My Empty Nest said...

Sorry you had a bad day, but hopefully tomorrow will be so much better. We all have days like that. We wouldn't be human if we didn't. I'm praying that tomorrow will be much better.
Love & blessings,
Melinda

Anonymous said...

What come around, goes around my daughter. I remember the time that I was correcting you rather sternly in the car and you said to me, Mommy one of your tooths is crooked. Well beside the fact that I completely lost all sense of what I was trying to do, I looked in the mirror to see if indeed it was crooked andfrom that day on I have been self conscious of my tooths. Mom

mer@lifeat7000feet said...

Yep...that sounds like a Tylenol PM day. Oh my word!

My youngest asked me once why I had lines all over my face. Lines=wrinkles. How hideous does that sound?

Sorry about the hormonal stuff...know you're not alone. It's consuming me these days.

And for the record, I think you're beautiful! Hope you have a better day today.

SarahfromWyoming said...

What a bummer....glad you were able to go to bed early. My 3 year old son was recently poking at me and I really wasn't paying attention until he said Mama...your tummy is squishy. Now...I've never had weight issues per se....but apparently I need to firm up!

Kelly said...

Bless your heart- I am with you! Then when I puddle into tears everyone just stares like deer in headlights, they just don't know where to go from there.

Hoping today is better (at least that is the good thing about hormones, I swing wildly from crying to manically happy, so the chances are good that today you will feel great, right?).

Thanks for sharing- we all can relate, and misery loves ocmpany:-)

Praying for you:-)

Anonymous said...

I have to say I am right there with ya~ One minute I can be in the best mood and then the next I want to scream or cry. It is like I have lost control of ME~ Lord, please HELP~ And my girls go around and tell their dad that mommy's MEAN - they say this ALL the time! Breaks my heart - I don't want to be a MEAN mommy~

Rebecca Jo said...

Oh, the innocence of kids & what they say.... you need to tell them that wrinkles around your eyes are all from smiling at all the cute things they say!

Heather said...

You know I firmly believe that hormones are from the DEVIL and I regularly curse the day Eve ate that apple! I know, we would have done the same thing and are even more rebellious/disobedient children of God...but STILL!!!
OH- and I am one of your crazy friends who has never had a chicken bisquit. I will try to remedy that this week!!! :)

Bev said...

Some days are just like that, some weeks actually. What would we do if God hadn't given us a sense of humor. I'm pretty sure he added it as a last minute thought after he decided we were the ones who would be giving birth. We've all been right where you are, promise.

Juice said...

Tough day! Your post made me giggle though. Thanks for sharing. Here's to a better day today!

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