I talked to a lady this week that is a very.serious.person. Very. She loves the Lord and her speech is most often seasoned with Scripture, but she just doesn't get humor when mixed in with talking about the Lord. In fact, she finds it repulsive.
Reminds me of a comment I heard years ago from Lucy Swindoll at a Women of Faith conference. I was very young in my walk with the Lord and fighting that battle of losing my old self in order to be holy. I was struggling with the thought of giving up 'fun'. Know what I mean? Lucy said, "The more you try to walk with the Lord, don't be such a stick in the mud! Who wants to hang out with a stick in the mud and better yet, who would want your God?"
Ain't it the truth?!
I have never forgotten those words and I heard them over ten years ago.
Around our house, we laugh at everything. We laugh when we finally get something God has been trying to teach us, we eventually laugh when we've messed up and we even laugh when a situation is particularly hard. The laughter comes after many tears, but laughter nonetheless.
Watching Eric's walk with the Lord has taught me so much about my own. I can be a very intense person and have a tendency to want to stay too serious for too long - somehow thinking that shows reverence and respect to the situation. Eric, on the other hand, will crack up in the midst of the tough season as if to recognize God's getting ready to show off.
It's contagious.
In fact, something I have found so endearing about Eric (when it used to annoy me to no end!) is when our Pastor preaches a sermon and in the middle of it, possibly in the middle of a verse, Eric lets out a huge laugh. (And, yes everyone around us turns to stare.) God's word and the committment it makes to Eric's life gets him so tickled. I love that.
Serving God is an absolute blast! The most fun I've ever had.
"Then was our mouth filled with laughter,
and our tongue with singing:
then said they among the heathen,
The LORD hath done great things for them."
Psalms 126:2
FYI - I think what prompted this post was a 'follower' who stopped 'following' and then sent me an anonymous comment explaining why. She said she was encouraged when I would post about the lessons God has taught me, but felt it a contradiction when I make jokes about my children. I will say that you certainly have a choice whether to read or not. I do joke a lot (definitely my personality) and at the same time love my children with everything in me. This blog is first and foremost a journal of our life and with that comes some hilarious stories in my opinion. I try to come across true to who I am in 'real life', so read or don't read - completely up to you.













7 comments:
Great thoughts here, Deidre.
I think humor is vital to living a full life. The ability to laugh at ourselves and to share laughter with others is a gift. (That's my opinion, anyway!)
One of the reasons I love your blog is your ability to mesh everyday life and faith with humor.
I steer clear of overly-serious blogs!
Think I was at the WOF -- I remember Lucy Swindoll saying that. And matter of fact -- I can hear it in my head just like she said it then.
I can take a lot from this. I have always been a very serious person. It might just be my make - up or maybe it is because I lost my innocence at the age of 6 -- whatever the reason -- I have to work at finding humor in things. BUT -- I appreciate and enjoy people who help me find it and you are definitely one of them! =)
Your blogs about your children and you as a mother are my FAVORITE. I have said it before, but you are such a role model to me in this area. I love your funny stories, your faith, and your love for the Lord.
Hope you have a great weekend!
way to go....
Honey... you KNOW I dont do well with
"over" serious stuff...
It drives me crazy!
I LOVE to laugh..
("with you, and AT YOU")
LOL
Some people just do not get the "gift of laughter".. those same ones do not get the "gift of sarcasm" either...
WOW!
"who wants to hang out with a stick in the mud?"..
Proverbs 17:22
...a cheerful heart is good medicine
:)
I am glad someone's opinion doesn't rule you darlin! Great post, thanks for being a leader in the faith, Growth is evident in your life, see ya tomorrow!
prayers and hugs
lb
Nevrr change you or your blog! Life is meant to be enjoyed, and I find this message more approriate than ever in light of your daughters Christ like award for joy. If that's not confirmation, then I don't know what is :-).
Unfortunately there will always be people who equate misery or seriousness with faith or "being religious" but I think they just don't recognize what an amazing and fun God we serve.
Love your blog, your attitude, and the joy you are teaching your daughters. We are the same here, and I pray that the laughter in our home will be at the top of the list of things that remind my girls of growing up:-)
I love you and your blog!!!! the only thing I dont like about it is that you dont do it enough!!! lol
your the best!
Princess
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